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Thursday, January 31, 2008

Music can help uplift you

Just today i had a craving for a cup of Starbucks coffee. If you've ever been to Starbucks then you know that each cup comes with a little message written on it. Today i got a cup with message #267 which read, "Music can lift us out of depression or move us to tears - it is a remedy, a tonic, orange juice for the ear. But for many of my neurological patients, music is even more - it can provide access, even when no medication can, to movement, to speech, to life. For them music is not a luxury, but a necessity." - - Oliver Sacks.

I really loved that because it's so true! Music is amazing. I've adored music ever since i can remember. When i was around 8 years old, i used to carry around a little radio with me everywhere i went listening to music. Music made me happy, made me think, made me wonder, and completely fascinated me. It even helped me come up with some interesting storylines for short stories i used to write as a kid. Music also relaxed me, energized me, and motivated me. It's also a stress buster. Put some music on and start dancing! Dance that stress away! Music is a true miracle.

January 30, 2008 - Not giving up!

I completely forgot to post yesterday's blog entry so here it goes. I kept reviewing things in my mind over and over again. I kept thinking about how things were really getting me down and how defeated i felt. It depressed me. There was too much constant stress. And here i started thinking that i didn't need anymore and how i just wanted some relief from it all. The longer i thought about it all, the more and more i got angry. Then it really hit me. It hit me how i was letting all these things get me down. It hit me how helpless i was feeling. It hit me how tired i was of all of it. And then.........then i stopped. I gathered myself and decided that this wasn't going to defeat me. I didn't want to give in! I didn't want to feel weak and helpless anymore. I was really upset with myself. I started feeling like my old self again. I started feeling like the fighting, strong-willed person that i knew well and i wasn't going to let things push me down. I was going to keep on and find ways to fix things. I was going to keep on with my plan as well as adjusting to the new things that were going to be happening soon. I was going to make things happen in a positive way and reach the end of the dark tunnel. I could see a faint light up ahead. I'm almost there...

Wednesday, January 30, 2008

January 29, 2008 - Too many thoughts

I spent the day helping my youngest with his schoolwork. It wasn't an easy thing. He has a hard time a lot of the time. I don't exactly know why. It's as if he get's overwhelmed or agitated easily. That's, actually, what caused his problems in public school and in turn contributed to my decision to homeschool him. I'm still dead set on keeping him homeschooled. Along with thoughts about that, a thousand other thoughts kept swimming in my head. It's a pain. I think too much. I don't want to think that much but it happens. I haven't quite figured out yet how to slow down some of those thoughts so that my mind isn't constantly bombarded by them. It's like it never get's any rest. And the worst part is that 80 percent of those thoughts are the same thoughts over and over again. I tend to analyze the events of the day or days past over and over again. They just keep going around and around in my head. How in the world do i stop from doing that? I just can't seem to stop. I guess little by little i'll figure it out just like all the other things that i have found that have helped me. It's just that whole over analyzing is so tough to get passed.

Monday, January 28, 2008

Tired

Today i'm feeling pretty tired. I had a heck of a time sleeping last night. Thoughts just kept creeping into my mind. Before i knew it, it was time to get up for work. Amazingly enough, i had energy at work and was able to get everything done. However, i was feeling down. I was able to shake that feeling off a few times but it kept coming back. Even so, i did have a good day at work. It was steady and the day went by at a pretty good pace. I'm just glad to be home because all i want to do is go to sleep. I'm just going to do a couple of more things and then i'm headed to bed early for some much needed sleep. Tomorrow is going to be a very busy day. Good night all.

Sunday, January 27, 2008

Short story

Today i felt as though a weight had been lifted off my shoulders. I can breathe more easily. Even though i'm not out of the red, so to speak, i feel much better. When i took the job at the store two years ago it was because i HAD to. My husband had lost his job and wasn't having any luck finding one. It was a very hard time for me. I had been sick all year. I suffered through two major ear infections that caused some horrible Vertigo, a major insomnia bout which triggered the on start of what is now an ongoing problem with acid reflux. When i took that job i was tired and exhausted. Not working was not an option so i had to somehow deal with it. Since we were new there we didn't have many resources saved up to work with nor insurance at the time. I did go to the doctor twice however but that wasn't much help. The year after that we moved into a house in a mobile home park. Because of the high prices here, it seemed the best thing to do because mortgage and space rent put together weren't going to be that much, probably as much as an average apartment here. We should have researched a bit better. This turned out to be the noisiest place i have EVER lived at! I'm a lite sleeper probably because of my problems with insomnia so you all can imagine how hard it's been to sleep since we moved here and we've been here for a year next month now! We have also been having so many problems with our fence being continuously broken. Nothing really we can do about it, it seems. We've complained and complained to park management to no avail. That's driving me crazy. During that first year living at this house here i also had a ton of stress at work at the store. They had a change in management and so many things kept changing and we lost a lot of people. There were times i was doing work for 4 people! I couldn't finish it all and we were, all of us who worked in my department, getting pressure for it. This lasted several months. So not only had i come out of a horrible year the previous year being severely sick and exhausted but now i had all the stress from not being able to sleep properly, the fence problems, work stress, and taking the time to home school my youngest, and i had made a choice to really start working my home business so i could build it and make things work so i wouldn't have to work outside the home all my life. I took on several responsibilities and my days were constantly packed. That definitely kept me busy and not bored, i can tell you that. Being busy has never bothered me but i think i may have made myself a little too busy. After a while, i was starting to feel it. I was starting to feel less energetic and so tired all the time. My priorities weren't in place. I knew i had to spend more time with my boys especially my youngest since i was homeschooling him. Unfortunately, i didn't take the necessary steps to properly register him so now i have to deal with that. With God's blessing hopefully the school district will allow me to continue to home school him. Please everyone keep me in your thoughts and prayers. Yesterday i made a firm decision to quit my job at the store and become a full time mom. I'm going to concentrate my time on my home business and my 3 boys.

Saturday, January 26, 2008

Priorities

There are times when things can get so overwhelming that everyone needs some time away from it all. However, there are also times when a person can't really get away from it. The person has to see it through and only then will it pass. These can be really difficult times. The last couple of years have been very tough on me. I've been under constant stress. If it's not one thing it's another. One thing right after the other. I have tried to keep my head up and be strong and do everything i can do to be positive and try and get through this but i'm having a very hard time. I continue to use the tools i've learned to stay calm and try to relax. They help but they can only help so much when the situations are ongoing. Let's face it, if stressful things continue to happen, if problems keep coming up, if there are no chance of breaks, then that can really wear you down. Yesterday i finally realized that i had to do something drastic. I NEEDED a change desperately. Every bit of stress now has taken it's toll on me and i really need a break. My top priority right now is my youngest son. A situation came up that i really need to take care of concerning him. I've actually been really worried sick about it. It's probably nothing to stress about but it's really bringing me down. If it wasn't for that, i would probably not feel the need to make a drastic change. I would brave everything that was going on as is and continue with how i had originally planned on getting through them. I'm a planner. I plan things out and get them done in an orderly fashion. That's been working like a charm for me for a while. I really recommend that for everyone. Make a plan and then make it happen! Anyway, the drastic change i'm going to make is quit my regular full time job at the store and become a work at home mom and just build my home business. This will give me so much more time to take care of the situation with my little one. He's my priority and i'm going to do everything i can to make things work and help him. He's a great boy and i love him so much! Thanx for listening...

Friday, January 25, 2008

Stressing a bit

Ok, first of all i want to say that i'm quite embarrassed from the post i made earlier. I was thinking it was Thursday when it was actually Friday! Wow, i can't believe i didn't realize that sooner! Oh well. Earlier i was stressing a bit. When i took a look at the clock and saw the time i started to feel overwhelmed. The time was flying by and i had yet to start on all the things i had to get done today. I try not to feel stressed out like that but sometimes it just happens even though i know i shouldn't. I often feel that i need more help here at home with everyday chores, reminders, and errands. I've been trying hard to teach my kids to help out around the house and be responsible in cleaning up after themselves, keeping a tidy room, helping out in the kitchen, and so on. They have been getting better at helping out but i still have to nudge them a lot. I wish my husband was more consistent in reminding them about helping out and all that. He's one of those people who's unmotivated about everything. He'd be content with being in the same place, in the same job, same situation, etc. for the rest of his life. It drives me nuts! I know he's not going to change. He hasn't yet in the 11 years we've been together but at least i know i can make a difference in my kids's lives by teaching them to succeed by showing them how important it is to help out and to take action on a situation whenever they're unhappy about the way something's going or they want to improve on something.

Confused

I may have not gotten enough sleep last night even though i think i did because today i've been completely out of it. I was looking at the posts i've made and thought i hadn't posted anything today yet but it shows a post from me. I just don't remember making that post today at all. For some reason i thought i posted it yesterday! Very Strange. I guess i still need more sleep. At least i was able to get all my business related "To Do's" done. It's very important to me to get things done in a timely manner. There are people counting on me out there and i certainly wouldn't want to disappoint them. I try really hard to provide the best customer service possible, answer email quickly, and so on. It's not easy being as busy as i always am but i continue trying. I really want my business to grow and some day in the near future be able to stay home with my kids so i can have more time with them while they're still here living with me and my husband. I keep thinking about that and it motivates me to keep going.

Thursday, January 24, 2008

January 23, 2008 - Walking

I didn't get a chance to post my blog entry yesterday. I was feeling sick. I don't really want to think that i'm catching a cold or flu but it sure feels like it. A lot of people have been getting sick around here. I guess it's the cold and flu season again. I'm feeling a lot better so i'm going to post yesterday's and today's post today again.

I want to thank Sandy for the idea for this post. Yesterday i posted how taking deep breaths was good for calming a person down in a flash. Another wonderful calming thing everyone can do is take a walk. I remember years ago i used to take walks regularly. I would take walks for EVERYTHING! If i was frustrated and wanted to get away, i would go for a long walk. If i just wanted to get some fresh air outside, i'd go on a walk. During the holidays i would go out and take scenic walks with my oldest son. He was months old then. We would walk past each house, my son in his stroller, admiring the holiday decorations. I'd also take fast walks if i wanted to make that my exercise for the day. I loved walking! After taking my walks i would always feel so calm, happy, and refreshed.

I haven't taken walks regularly in quite a while. I'm thinking i should start again. We have a park nearby here and i think that would be the best place to start!

Tuesday, January 22, 2008

Calming down in a split moment

From years of trying to figure out what works to calm a person down and trying out different things, one of the best things i've found to work when you want to calm down fast is to take a few deeps breaths. Somehow when you breath in deeply and fill your lungs with some fresh oxygen, your body automatically relaxes in a flash. I do this when something really stressful happens and i need to refocus and calm down so i can look at the situation in a calm state. I end up taking about 5 or 6 deep breaths to fully appreciate the benefits. A lot of the time we are in so much of a hurry that we are so used to taking shallow breaths. Taking slow deep breaths every once in a while helps the body de-stress. This is why there are many books out there that talk about deep breathing to relax. It's used all the time in meditation and Yoga exercises and poses. To benefit from deep breathing, take a little time each day to take a few deep breaths. Goodnight all!

January 21, 2008 - Being positive

Yesterday turned out to be a VERY busy and emotional day so i completely forgot about posting to my blog. I'm really surprised too because i'm very good at posting something every single day. I'll be posting yesterday's post as well as today's post today. What happened yesterday was that my best friend is having problems and she had a bad weekend plus more bad news come her way yesterday. We ended up talking for quite a while on the phone. After our long talk we both were feeling much better. I've had quite a few things built up inside and last night i finally explained a few things to her that were going on with me also. Talking to someone really helps alleviate stress and calm a person down. Most of the time i talk to my husband about everything because i feel very comfortable talking to him. He's not much of a conversationalist but he listens. One good thing to do when life tries to keep you down is think positive. I know it's tough to do. Sometimes i can't think positively but i keep trying. I think of how positive things will turn out in the end. I think how all my hard work and determination will bring about positive and bright results. Looking to the future with a positive attitude and outlook really makes a difference. It makes you feel better that you're working towards a much better future.

There are other ways that may help to stay positive. There are places online where you can subscribe to receive positive quotes, articles, etc. to your mailbox. I receive positive quotes everyday to my mailbox and they can be very inspiring. Another way is to put up inspiring pictures on your walls, desk, and maybe even on the fridge. They can be about anything that you find inspiring. I, myself, find beautiful scenic pictures very inspiring such as a snowy scene, a waterfall, forest path, etc. I like to put those kind of pictures as wallpaper on my computer. Sometimes certain songs can be inspiring also. Whenever you need a little pick me up, just pop in your favorite inspiring songs and have a listen. Everyone is different so you may find that there are other things that also inspire you to be positive. Search them out and soon you'll be well on your way to a more positive frame of mind.

Sunday, January 20, 2008

The balance of things

This blogging marathon has been so great so far. I haven't missed one day and i'm still very motivated to keep going. Writing in my blog everyday has really been giving me good practice on different aspects of writing. This is exactly what i needed to help me get better at thinking up things to write and create. Sometimes i have a hard time thinking up something to write but i always write something. I think mainly that's because i'm so busy and tired all the time. I rarely have breaks. Life is just so hectic. Most of the time i don't mind at all being so busy. I never get bored that way and i seem to thrive too. It's as if my mind needs constant stimulation. When things get way too hectic and busy and i know i need a little break, i'll take one. Also, i've found that the busier i get there's a less chance of me getting insomnia. Not quite sure how that works but it does. I really hate being plagued by insomnia and in the past it has cost me quite a few health problems, one of which i suffer from daily now. The strange part about this whole thing though, is that even though i do great when i'm extremely busy, i also do very badly if i'm in a stressful situation. So i can be REALLY busy just not REALLY busy in a stressful situation. Like right now my every waking hour is packed with things to do. That doesn't bother me. However, if something stressful happens during that time or anytime for that matter then i tend to fall apart. I guess it's just a strange balance.

Saturday, January 19, 2008

Hard work paid off

Today i received my package from Handmade Natural Beauty, the company i'm a consultant with. The best part was that not only were the items that i had won for most sales in December been included but also my very first check with them! I've been tired all day so you couldn't tell just by looking at me how thrilled i was to receive that package but i was. I've been working so hard whenever i can to acheive my goals and it seems to be paying off now. With how busy my life is constantly, i'm surprised i'm making any kind of headway in business but i keep trying to be as positive as i can be and being persistent. My dreams are just over the horizon and i'm going to catch them!

Friday, January 18, 2008

What happens when you can't think?

Well, my brain isn't working today. As much as i would love to come up with something informational or interesting to say, i can't. Maybe i dropped my brain like Jack's clone did in the Pirates of the Carabbean: At World's End movie. LOL. Well, whatever the case may be my head feels like it's swimming in a weird lost sea. It's like it's trying to tell me to go to bed and to make sure i do, it's not going to let me get creative, or give me any interesting or informative ideas to work with. My brain has a mind of it's own. And when it's made up it's mind, that's that. I'm just going to let my brain win for tonight and try again tomorrow. Goodnight all.

Thursday, January 17, 2008

Sleeping Well

Just like i mentioned in my entry a couple of days ago, sleep is very important. From experience, i can honestly tell you that sleep is important for keeping stress down. Whenever i don't get enough sleep, i have a very hard time coping with things and sometimes it feels like the end of the world. When you are asleep, the body recovers. Without proper sleep, the body's internal functions are affected. You have a hard time remembering, you mood changes and you can become irritable, your immune system suffers, and other health problems can occur.

To sleep well, everyone needs anywhere from 7 to 10 hours of sleep. Why the wide range of hours? Because everyone is different. Some people may need more and some may need less. However, when you have missed a few days of good sleep, the body will try and sleep longer to make up the deficit and in that case, you will need more hours. You just have to see what the right amount is for you. Also, babies and children need more sleep than adults.

For a good night's sleep, it's good to create the right atmosphere in your room. Make sure your bed is comfortable. You need to have the right kind and amount of sheets and blankets so that you're not too hot or too cold during the night. Also, room temperature should be comfortable. Make sure the room is dark unless you need some type of nightlight. In that case, make sure it's not right in your face or shining in your eyes. Also, keeping a tidy room can help. It can be stressful to see everything unorganized and messy. I'll write more on this in a later post.

Try to go to sleep and wake up at the same time everyday. This will help set your internal clock. Also, when you wake up in the morning, wake up to the light. Just open your curtains or step out into the light. That also helps you internal clock adjust. I personally like to step out into the fresh air in the morning and and take some deep breaths. If you wake up before the sun comes up because of work or something else, just try to step outside when you can and get a little light. Make sure you only use your bed to sleep in instead of using it to watch tv, read, doing work or something else like that. Your body needs to realize that the bed is for sleeping so that when you do go to bed, you will fall asleep more easily.

Make sure you don't eat too late, exercise too late, or drink coffee or any other caffeinated beverage too late before bed because that can keep you awake. However, it's been researched that exercise can be beneficial in helping you sleep better when done early enough. You don't want to be too wound up before bed. Eating right can also help because when you don't get the right nutrients or enough nutrients your body will feel off.

Regardless of what you do, there will be times when getting enough sleep is impossible. Don't stress about it. Get as much sleep as you can when you can. Sweet dreams all.

Wednesday, January 16, 2008

Link Love in 2008!

I've been tagged so i thought i'd post this today and continue the other topic tomorrow.

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Tuesday, January 15, 2008

Sleeping well intro.

Something we all really need is sleep. Not only is sleep important for your health but when you get enough sleep you are also able to deal with stress much better. Having suffered from insomnia practically all my life, i know only too well what the consequences of little sleep can be. Make sure you get enough rest every night to feel rested and ready to go the next day. More on sleep tomorrow. For now i'm in need of sleep myself. The time just flew on by today and before i knew it, it was time for bed. Goodnight all.

Monday, January 14, 2008

Another favorite quote

Here's another one of my favorite quotes:

"A friend is one who sees through you and still enjoys the view". --Wilma Askinas (1926- ) American Author

Sometimes when you're all stressed out or depressed, it's good to have a close friend you can chat with. Having someone there to listen and to lean on every once in a while is comforting. It's not good to keep feelings bottled up. Getting your feelings out in other ways is good too such as blogging. If you don't want to post your feelings for others to view, you can put your blog on private if your blog has that option, have a paper diary, or simply write your feelings on a piece of paper and when done just tear it up and throw it away.

Until tomorrow all!

Sunday, January 13, 2008

Even more motivation

Since the start of this year, my life has been filled with different events that have given me motivation to keep doing what i'm doing and that is to keep building my home business so that i can finally stay home on a daily basis with my boys and husband. I want to be able to spend more time with my kids. I want to be there for them while they're still here at home. I want to be able to take them to their school events, be more involved with their schools, take them to sports or other things they may want to do. As it is right now i barely have time for any type of extra or free time. Sometimes being so busy takes its toll on me but then i stop and think that later it will all be worth it.

Yesterday spending that quality time with my boys and having so much fun gave me even more motivation to keep going. It's given me the lift i needed to keep working hard towards my goals. Motivation lessens stress too. It's good for the soul.

Saturday, January 12, 2008

A fun and relaxing day

Today i had a great day! Not only was it one of my days off from my regular 9 to 5 job but i got to spend some real quality time with my 3 little boys. Around 10 we headed out and picked up something to eat. Then we headed to the park and ate it there before running around. For Christmas my boys got a skateboard, a scooter, and a ripstick and we all wanted some room to really use them. I even got into it by trying them out! I felt so happy and free just running around with my kids and they were all very happy that i was hanging out with them and participating in what they were doing. I can't believe how loud i was being, laughing and carrying on! I have to tell you all, after all the stress that i've been through for almost a year, it was a relief to be able to spend a stress free day. Last year was a very tough one for us. We were desperate to find a place to live because the hotel we were living at after moving here was getting too expensive. We should have researched a whole lot more before buying the place we have now and moving in. I feel it's mostly my fault because i was in such a rush to move into a different place. Now we're having all kinds of problems and i totally regret moving to this house. I'm not really going to elaborate on the situation but let's just say that kids around here don't know how to respect other people's property. Anyway, i can say that today i had a perfect day. My family is a big part of what keeps me together in hard times. I know things will work out. We're working on making some changes. We're doing something about our situation.

Friday, January 11, 2008

Easier said than done

Today is the 11th day of my posting marathon. Only 354 days to go. At the beginning of this year i took on a challenge to write one entry per day all year. I was very motivated then and i'm still motivated now. Nothing has changed. However, doing this challenge is easier said than done. Sometimes things get in the way and i'm not able to get online at a reasonable hour and just yesterday my Internet was acting up and i almost didn't get to post. I would have been very disappointed if i wasn't able to post yesterday. However, after doing some thinking, i thought better of it and decided that there were ways around it just in case something did happen and i didn't get to post on a certain day. Let's face it, things happen that are beyond my control and there will come a time this year that i will probably not be able to post on a certain day or post in time. There's always posting the entry from that day on the next day as well as the newest entry. It's not something for me to stress about. Now if this situation had presented itself a couple of years ago, i would have freaked out royally! I didn't have the anti-stress skills i do now. Throughout the years, months, and days, i've learned and learned about staying calm. I'll have to admit, a lot of the times i still stress out way too much and come undone but i'm forever working on getting better. That's one of the reasons for this blog. I'm on a quest to relax. Easy does it...

Thursday, January 10, 2008

Quote

My internet has been acting up all day and it's been tough to stay connected so i've just decided to post a quote today. Sometimes life can throw us curve balls and put obsticles in our way but if we can remember this great quote, it will give us some peace of mind.



"Hard things are put in our way, not to stop us, but to call out our courage and strength." -- Anonymous

Wednesday, January 9, 2008

Peacefulness

Today has been a good day despite my lack of sleep. Throughout the day it was peaceful even at work for 8 and a half hours in the morning. Everything seemed to go smoothly. I wish everyday could be like that. Wouldn't that be nice?

Everyone has a picture of what peacefulness looks like in their minds. To me peacefulness is a day filled with birds chirping and other woodland animal sounds. To me peacefulness is being in a little cottage surrounded by beautiful, green trees of all sizes and shapes. To me peacefulness is the falling snow. Imagine the countless shapes in the little snowflakes. I've heard that everyone is different. To me peacefulness is sitting in my room doing something i like.

Today i wish everyone a little bit of peacefulness to lighten your day.

Tuesday, January 8, 2008

Organization

One of the things i learned long ago was that being organized did wonders for keeping stress away. I did many searches online in order to find the best ways to stay organized. I found a wealth of information and even signed up to receive organization emails from a couple of different sites. Unfortunately, at first procrastination made it very difficult to keep things organized and tidy. I felt overwhelmed because whenever i saw how much there was to get done, i had an all or nothing mindset. When you have an all or nothing mindset, you tend to overwhelm yourself, feel defeated that you didn't get it all done at that moment, time, or day, and procrastinate even more. This makes it so easy to quit. The key is to think smaller. One of my favorite phrases now is "one step at a time". You don't have to do everything all at once. If you do a certain amount each day you will soon be able to get it all done. You can't rush things. When things are rushed, they don't always come out right or how you wanted them too.

There are several ways you can get things done without feeling overwhelmed. Planning is one good way to get things done in a timely manner without having to squeeze everything into a certain time or day. Make sure you review all the things that need to be done and then separate them into what should be done first, what should be done soon but not necessarily first, and what can be done later if it's not able to be done that day. Just remember that it's not the end of the world if you don't get everything on your list done. It's ok to leave some things for the next day. At first list planning might be hard to get used to. Just take it one step at a time. Little by little. Baby steps. There's always tomorrow.

Monday, January 7, 2008

So far so good

It's only been one day since i put my new year's resolutions plan into action but I'm still happy that it's going pretty good.

I went and ran some business errands this morning and then came home to do some networking online. From there it was home school with my youngest and he did pretty good today too.

Last night something happened to push my motivation into high gear. Even though it wasn't anything pleasant, it is keeping me going at full speed. I'm going to continue to stick to my new year's goals and continue to see results.

I was also thrilled to receive something in the mail that i had been waiting to find out about. I'm not really going to elaborate too much right now because i still want to keep it low key. However, i am going to say it's something to help me out in my writing career. I'm an aspiring writer and i hope to one day have some of my stories published.

Sunday, January 6, 2008

New Year's Resolutions

I've taken the time to write my resolutions and sort of pen down an action plan to help me follow through. I want to write them down in as many places as i can and tell as many people as i'm able also. That makes a better chance to keep them.

1. Keep Organized - I want to keep as organized as possible concerning all things. Little by little i've been getting better at it and it's been a yearly resolution for me for a couple of years now. Staying organized is so important because you don't have to worry about finding things when you really need them and it keeps the stress down. I need to concentrate on keeping a tidy place. With having two jobs and homeschooling, i've been extremely busy and it's gotten so hard to keep up. I just need to plan my time better somehow. I decided to set aside some time each day to organize. Let's see how it goes.

2. Keep commited to a regular homeschool schedule with my son - With my hectic schedule, it's been too easy to get disorganized when it comes to homeschooling and since i'm still learning how it all works, i need to keep at it so i can keep developing a good plan. I'm going to pen down a schedule and lessons every two weeks in advance. This will make it easier to follow through and get everything done that we need to get done.

3. Build my home business - I really want to do great in 2008. I want to build my business so that I can have some regular income coming in even if it's not all that much. I plan on networking regularly while finding new places and ways to advertise. I love the company i'm with and i'm hoping i can somehow translate that passion into words so that others can understand. It's a great business and one i'm going to be with for a very long time. I'm going to try my best to build a downline of about 12 also.

So there you go, my resolutions. I'm very motivated and i'm hoping i can keep that motivation throughout this year.

Saturday, January 5, 2008

Time sure flys!

Today the time went by at record speed. Before I knew it, it was 8 at night. It's almost time for me to go to sleep because I have work tomorrow. Oh the joys of getting up at a certain time everyday on work days. I'm not much for sarcasm but I just had to say that. I can't complain too much though, things are picking up with my home business as a consultant for Handmade Natural Beauty. Whenever I think about how I have to get up everyday for regular work, it just makes me want to work even harder towards building my home business so that I can stay home full time.

I truely love the products that Handmade Natural Beauty makes. Today for some reason my skin was feeling really ichy. I took a nice shower and then used one of the Handmade Natural Beauty lotion bars that I have. I took my time massaging the lotion in and afterwards I felt much better. I love it that the products are made with natural high-quality ingredients. I'd rather take care of my skin with natural products than use anything else. I can take care of my skin without having anything other than something natural on my skin. The soaps and lotions are really moisterizing and work great especially now with winter here. Winter can wreak havoc on the skin making it dry. I can't wait for the unveiling of the new Winter limited edition products! I'm sure they'll be wonderful. The Summer and Fall limited edition soaps are already sold out, only the matching candles remain. When being a part of a direct selling company, you have to be passionate about what you do and the products you sell and I definitely feel passionate about everything that Handmade Natural Beauty is about!

Friday, January 4, 2008

My Love For Blogging

Ever since Elementary school I've been hooked on writing. It all started with a poetry assignment. I realized how fun it was to create ideas and thoughts like that and put them into paper. From there I soon started writing short stories and pen palling along with journaling. Now I have a few blogs online and I love to add to them when I have time. One of the things I decided to do was join someone else in writing in my blog 365 days this year.

Hopefully, I can fill this blog with useful, interesting, and thought provoking content. I've been on a quest to find ways to be a calmer person and to just figure out how to relax. As a child, it was easy to relax and feel calm. I would lie down on my bed and just look up at the sky for a while thinking of nothing at all. These days it would be a miracle if I could sit still 5 minutes doing absolutely nothing. Now-a-days, people are always in a rush to get things done. I feel rushed all the time and then overwhelmed that I HAVE to get this and that done. Even at work, that whole rushed mindset has set in. Their motto? Speed Is Life. Even though they just mean that for work, it makes me feel as though it's meant for things outside of work also because of the word Life in that phrase.

I don't want to feel rushed like that anymore. I really want to learn to be calmer and just to be able to relax every once in a while without feeling the need to have to do something. I'm always worried about getting things done and that's really wearing me down. Because this month is a slow month at work, I got 3 days off this week and even though I've been trying to sleep well, I don't feel rested at all. Today I found myself taking some deep breaths in an attempt to just slow down and again I took my time in the shower.

Right now I'm thinking "one step at a time". I've written down my resolutions and written down a plan of action to follow through. I'm taking a deep breath now. I'm feeling calm.

Thursday, January 3, 2008

Trying to be calm

Today has been kind of a strange day. I was feeling a bit down for some reason. It happens like that sometimes. And at times like these I wish there was some quick fix but unfortunately, I don't think there's such a thing. There's only my will to make things change for the positive. It's up to me to do something about how I'm feeling. Things aren't going to change if I don't do something about it. I've learned this from past experience.

My first thought to the dilemma was to take a shower. That always makes me feel better. I used a brand new pumpkin spice soap that I had recently bought from Handmade Natural Beauty. It's probably my most favorite now. Unfortunately, it was a Fall seasonal soap which has sold out. I was lucky enough to get the one I did. I immediately felt so much better. The pumpkin spice scent calmed me and I took my time in there to relax. I was calm for quite a while afterwards too. Another thing I did was eat a banana split. I was craving something sweet and that's what I was wanting. I read just today about the positive mood affects of chocolate and although the banana split only had chocolate sauce on it, it worked somewhat. For years it seems that chocolate has been very popular. Maybe I'll do some research on that of my own later.

For now things are better again and I'm off to write my resolutions.

Wednesday, January 2, 2008

Continuing to Shine

My year ended in a positive note. All my hard work is finally starting to pay off. Ever since I found out about direct selling companies, I wanted to work from home. That would give me the opportunity to stay home with my 3 boys and wonderful husband. I'm working on building my business so that I CAN stay at home. I'm looking forward to it and it's a great motivation.

At first I had a lot to learn. I found out that I had to find that perfect company, the one company that was right for me. It took me a few years and a lot of mistakes but I did find thee one. I figured out that I needed to be passionate about my business and love the products. You can't really promote something you don't like and aren't passionate about, right? Handmade Natural Beauty was the perfect direct selling company for me. From the moment I found out about it, I wanted to become a consultant with them.

First of all, I absolutely adore bath and body products! In an earlier post I mentioned how showering was therapeutic to me. Whenever I take a shower I come out feeling refreshed and brand new. It's an awesome feeling! I love using the Handmade Natural Beauty bath and body products to make my showering and bath experiences truely heavenly. It's like a new spa experience everyday. The products I order for myself don't last because everyone in my home loves to use them! I'm very happy I came accross this company and I'm going to continue to share this great opportunity with everyone around me.

Here's to a prosperous, happy, and adventurous new year!

Tuesday, January 1, 2008

Happy New Year!

Happy New year to all my readers! I'm ready to start this year fresh! I'm going to commit to writing one blog entry every day this year. It's a challenge that I want to undertake. As I was going through my mail I came upon another blogger that was committing to this challenge. I found it very motivating and that's when I decided to give it a go.

Besides, what a better way to improve on my writing, share my business, and share my journey to become a more relaxed person than this way! I'm so excited to be able to start fresh in the new year. Because, even though it's really just another day passing, just the thought of 2007 changing to 2008 is a real motivator. It's a mind set. Seeing the year change puts me in a more positive frame of mind. I want to do better. I want this year to be more positive, happier, successful.

And speaking about the new year, now is the time for those resolutions! Some people do them and some don't. I like to make resolutions because they are goals for the year. Making them and jotting them down helps me keep focused on what I want to accomplish that year. While reading my mail, I came accross a great article on how to make resolutions so you are more likely to keep them. I'm going to take the time to really think about what I want to accomplish and then take the necessary steps to get them done.

Here we go 2008!